Remote Control System™ · The Cards
For the split second before you, your family, your team and your clients react.
The moment rarely waits for you to find the book. It happens in the kitchen at 6pm, in the meeting that ran over, in the message you’re about to send. These cards put the 10 buttons where you’ll see them in that split second: on the fridge, on the desk, in your wallet or on your phone.
If you have ever raised your voice at the person standing nearest you instead of at what caused it.
If you have ever said “no, it’s fine”, with the reason it’s not fine left unsaid behind it.
If you have ever softened an answer so far that what you meant was no longer in it.
If you have ever heard a sentence you grew up with in your own voice, before you had decided to say it.
Then you are in the right place.
The RCS™ framework sequence and the 10 buttons on one page. Save it or print it, and put it where the moment most often happens.
The same 10 buttons as a dashboard, applied to you. Press any button to read what it does when it presses on you, and what you press back. Print it for the fridge or the desk.
A single wallet card for the 90-Second Pause and the 90-Second Decide. Save it or print it and share it with the people you work with, live with and do life with.
Open the 90-Second Pause & Decide tools →
The 90-Second Pause is the breath. The 90-Second Decide is the 1 framework sequence: Pause, Notice, Reset, Decide. Together, that’s the Remote Control System™ in action. Free. No email. No account.
A deck of 10 cards, one button each. The Moment on the front. What the book teaches for that button on the back. Both sized for a wallet or a phone case.
Free with any copy of the book, the eBook, the workbook or the bundle. Send your receipt at /bonuses and the deck arrives by email. Inside the workbook the cards sit one by one, each with its own chapter; this deck collects all of them in one place.
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Naming is free. Learning is the book. It teaches the RCS™ framework sequence and the 10 buttons. Practising is the workbook. Catching the Moment is the app. That’s the Remote Control System™ in action.
Names the 10 buttons on one page.
Teach the RCS™ framework sequence and the shared language.
Go where the moment happens.
A moment happens before anyone has a name for it. The fallout arrives later: in a kitchen at 6pm, in the meeting after the meeting, in the message you rewrite at 11pm. The cards take the system off the shelf and put it where the moment is, for you on your own, for the people you live with and for the team you work with.
Work on one card at a time. Ten cards on a fridge or a desk are wallpaper by the third day.
5 minutes. 16 questions. Free.
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