The Switch · £27 · digital download
Busy instead of done
For the split second before you, your family, your team or your clients react.
That split second has a name: the Handover™. The 10 buttons let you name it, so you notice it earlier and come back faster.
The Remote Control System™ teaches you and each member of your family, team or even your clients how to take back your remote control into your hand to become the Keeper of the Remote Control (KRC).
For you, if you get a great deal done on the days you avoid the one task that matters most.
6 useful tasks. Not the one that mattered. The Switch shows you the split second you change direction, and a 3-day Switch Log shows you what you keep switching away from.
£27. One payment. The Split Second Guide, the 3-day Switch Log, a price on the one task and 1 card to save or print. Delivered to you electronically in minutes. 14-day money back guarantee.
You did not put it off. You did 6 useful tasks, all of which needed doing. None of which was the one that made the difference.
This is not a time management issue. It’s not an organisation issue either.
It’s 10:42am. You’re between two meetings. The task you have to do is at the top of your list and you’ve already looked at it 4 times in the past 90 minutes. On the 5th look, you notice the shared drive is a mess, and honestly it is. 40 minutes later, the drive is immaculate.
You are not lazy. You are the most productive avoider in the building. Every task you did instead was real work, which is precisely why your team has never called it what it is, and neither have you.
Then it’s Thursday and the one task that stayed at the top of your list is now a bigger issue, because it aged. You’re attempting to complete it at 4:45pm in the worst possible rushed tone.
The switch takes about 2 seconds. You have never once seen it happen.
The Channel Button is what’s being pressed on you here. It’s one of 6 buttons that press on you.
Channel: the truth changing direction. At 10:42am the truth was the one task. By 10:44am it was the shared drive.
Naming it is free. Noticing it in the split second it happens, and knowing what you switched away from, is what this kit is for.
What does it include
The Switch · £27 · digital download
The Split Second Guide
How to spot Channel while it’s happening, and the tell that gives it away.
A 3-day Switch Log
A few seconds to log each switch, over 3 days.
A price on the one task
A way to price what the one task has already cost you. You write every number. A price is information.
1 card
You can save or print it, for the moment itself.
PDF and 1 card. Delivered to you electronically in minutes.
What changes
- ·You notice The Switch earlier, while you are making it, rather than on Thursday when the task has aged.
- ·You find out what you have been switching away from.
- ·You get back to the task at the top of your list sooner: Tuesday, in your own tone, rather than Thursday at 4:45pm in a rushed one.
- ·You can tell a full day from a finished one.
- ·When you tidy the drive, you know you chose to.
- ·You and your colleagues share a name for it, so “that was a Switch” lands as information rather than criticism.
“The chapter on the Handover named something I had been doing for decades without a word for it. I finished this book in two sittings and started the workbook the same week.”
Head of Operations, Healthcare sector · reader
From Reham’s leadership work (a team diagnostic, not this kit)
“I didn't realise just how much urgency was distorting my decisions. This diagnostic report gave me genuine clarity about what was actually happening.”
Founder
Who developed it
Developed by Reham Nasr, Developer of the Remote Control System™, working where pressure meets behaviour since 1998.
“I’ve been researching one question: why do capable, values-driven people act against their own judgement under pressure? I was doing it and so were my clients.”
Reham Nasr
Naming is free. Learning is the book. It teaches the RCS™ framework sequence and the 10 buttons. Practising is the workbook. Catching the Moment is the app. That’s the Remote Control System™ in action.
What the Remote Control System™ will and will not do
Nothing honest can promise you will stop reacting. Here’s what it can promise.
What it will not do
- ✗ Not pressure-proof
- ✗ Not pattern-free
- ✗ Not perfect
What it will do
- ✓ Pressure-aware
- ✓ Pattern-aware
- ✓ Practised
You will notice the Moment earlier, sometimes as it happens rather than that evening.
You will interrupt it more often than you do now.
You will miss some. When you do, you will have a way back instead of an apology you make up on the spot.
This is not therapy. It’s not a diagnosis. It’s about everyday pressures during an ordinary week. If what’s underneath is bigger than that, this is the wrong platform for you, and support is here.
14-day money back guarantee
Get it and use it. If it’s not for you, email [email protected] within 14 days of buying and your £27 comes back to you. No form to fill in, no reason to give. Anything you saved or printed is yours either way.
Begin on any day. Log The Switch for 3 days, a few seconds each time. Start on Monday, and by Wednesday evening you have 3 days of your own switches written down, and the task you kept switching away from, instead of guessing at it for another month.
The Switch · £27 · digital download
Everything you get
- ✓The Split Second GuideHow to spot Channel while it’s happening, and the tell that gives it away.PDF
- ✓A 3-day Switch LogA few seconds to log each switch, over 3 days.3 days
- ✓A price on the one taskWhat the one task has already cost you. You write every number.PDF
- ✓1 cardSave or print it, for the moment itself.Print
One payment. Delivered to you electronically in minutes. 14-day money back guarantee.
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P.S. 3 days of logging, a few seconds a day. The log won’t do the noticing for you. It gives you something to notice with.
Familiarise yourself with the RCS™ shared language
The Remote Control System™ shared language is free, and it’s meant to be shared with the people you work with, live with and do life with.
The whole system, stated the one way it’s always stated
The 4 events are when it happens: The Moment, The Handover™, The Gap, The Return™
The 10 buttons: 6 press on you. 4 you press.
The 1 framework sequence: Pause. Notice. Reset. Decide.
The 1 shared language.
What presses on you
What you press
The Remote Control System™ teaches you how to take back your remote control into your hand to become the Keeper of the Remote Control (KRC).
What is asked in return: name the Remote Control System™ when you share its language with anyone else.
Press any button on Your Remote Control and see what it looks like when it lands. Open Your Remote Control →
Your questions, answered
Why am I busy all day and still not doing the one task that matters?
Because of a switch you never see. At 10:42am the truth was the one task. By 10:44am it was the shared drive. In the Remote Control System™ that is the Channel Button: the truth changing direction. The switch takes about 2 seconds, and every task you do instead is real work.
What is the Channel Button?
Channel is one of the 6 buttons that press on you in the Remote Control System™: the truth changing direction. Naming it is free. Noticing it in the split second it happens, and knowing what you switched away from, is what The Switch is for.
What is in The Switch?
The Split Second Guide, on how to spot Channel while it’s happening and the tell that gives it away. A 3-day Switch Log. 1 card you can save or print, for the moment itself. It costs £27 and is delivered to you electronically in minutes.
How long does the Switch Log take?
A few seconds each time, over 3 days. Begin on any day. Start on Monday, and by Wednesday evening you have 3 days of your own switches written down, and the task you kept switching away from, instead of guessing at it for another month.
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